Unfortunately, both the pins you've mentioned have tons of scrappers out there. Fortunately, though, the scrappers are generally easy to spot for those. The Cinderella Gem, for example, should be comprised of nothing but shades of blue. Scrapper versions of this pin have very obvious paint issues; there's usually some odd green coloration to the skin, hair or "shine" parts of the gem. A good rule of thumb for a lot of scrapper comparisons is to check (out)line thickness (scrappers tend to run thick on the lines), detailing (pupils are sometimes in the wrong spots or a line meant to show a dip in hair or fabric is missing), color, shine and fills. Most official pins have a shine to them, scrappers tend to look dull in comparison.
The Teacup Princess pins will run a bit darker in color if they're scrappers and I believe the scrapper versions tend to have thin or disproportionate looking handles on the cup. Hidden Mickey pins get scrappered a lot, just so you know, but checking the Hidden Mickey head itself should also help you determine if you have an authentic pin or not. Scrappers will have malformed heads where the ears are either way too big or way too small or even look a bit stretched out.
Taking pictures of your pins can help those on the board help you see if what you have is authentic or not and back pictures are always a good way to tell. If you're able to, try posting images of what you are unsure of, though I can understand that can be difficult without a good enough camera.