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I dont understand why people talk smack about the buyer to sell. 99% of the people who bought to trade will be asking for = if not more in trade value. Same deal IMO. /shrug
Then hopefully at least one of the people you helped out during that event will return the favor. Clearly, it was a full day of waiting in lines for you. And I completely understand your point if you have done favors like this for others on this forum. They should do the same for you. And I am sorry if none of those people have been willing to help you out.
I have done favors for others that have not returned the favor to me. But I try to give without wanting anything in return. It is hard sometimes, but I do my best. This keeps me happy and content.
Read this. http://advancedlifeskills.com/blog/are-you-giving-without-expectation/
"We all realize that giving on any level feels really good, but internally all forms of giving are not equal. When we give with the expectation of receiving something in return, we are not really letting go of what we are giving. If we do not let go completely, then we are still clinging to whatever we gave."
If you all think that the re-sellers have the right to screw people over then go ahead and be on the wrong side of life. We can agree to disagree.
there is still room here for a happy story.. i started this as sumthing to think about and so i can learn a little. We are a fam and no need to fight. we all have a point of view and sum are not the same.
so now lets hear about all the good ppl that got pins for ppl at cost.... or as a gift
The sales forum here on DPF is full of people selling pins at way above cost. Not just the UP pins. While those of us complaining here are buying those pins and wishing the sellers luck. What is the difference?
there is still room here for a happy story.. i started this as sumthing to think about and so i can learn a little. We are a fam and no need to fight. we all have a point of view and sum are not the same.
so now lets hear about all the good ppl that got pins for ppl at cost.... or as a gift
I'm sorry, but this thread has brought nothing positive to this forum so far. It has just gotten so ugly and to read some of these comments is disappointing as well. It's one way to have a heated debate, but this is almost to the point of attacking each other.
It goes for a lot of them too... one thing is a higher price due to the Age and Rarety of a pin. another think is $300 for a 4 pin set that Just came out... if you can't understand that difference then I really don't know how else to put it <3
+1,000% <3
I agree, and I'm not trying to attack anyone but I'm feeling like what kakura keeps coming back at me with is making me feel the need to defend my honor, which is stupid if you know me at all. <3 I don't like to feel like this. As i'm sure you all know by now it is not like me to jump in on somethng like this. Usually i will shower the thread with hearts and Images of Love to stop this sort of thing. But this time after seeing some of my close friends who help others a ton all the time get screwed, just made me sad. Showed the true Fin's hiding on the people I thought highly of...
It goes for a lot of them too... one thing is a higher price due to the Age and Rarety of a pin. another think is $300 for a 4 pin set that Just came out... if you can't understand that difference then I really don't know how else to put it <3
+1,000% <3
I agree, and I'm not trying to attack anyone but I'm feeling like what kakura keeps coming back at me with is making me feel the need to defend my honor, which is stupid if you know me at all. <3 I don't like to feel like this. As i'm sure you all know by now it is not like me to jump in on somethng like this. Usually i will shower the thread with hearts and Images of Love to stop this sort of thing. But this time after seeing some of my close friends who help others a ton all the time get screwed, just made me sad. Showed the true Fin's hiding on the people I thought highly of...
You know what, You seem to have issues understanding me. cause you have no Idea who I am or What type of person I am Obv... I NEVER do good deeds with any sort of expectation of getting anything in return. But! I do expect the people I help to be Helpful towards others. I am not even Interested in this set personally for myself. especially with all the backstabbing going on for it. Honestly to me this set would now remind me of what some of the people i hold dear to my heart have gone through. I am a happy and content individual that is hurt when i see people acting selfishly to others. That is all i am saying here, please do not twist things into a smart a$$ remark towards me. you do not know me.
Well, I went to the Up release in hopes for getting a set for myself, and two for friends. I originally was bringing my Grandma and my mom, but only my mother could come.
In the end I managed to get a set for myself, and for my friend at cost. I do feel bad that I was unable to get the other set for my other friend.
Overall I had a great time staying overnight with everyone. My grandma and I chatted, played games, and even pin traded with people.
However I still hate the fact that people are taking advantage of others who were unable to get in line, or even be at DSF.
Well it did show how passionate you are.
If you look back up at this thread, you are the one that started with me.
I don't think she was trying to be smart with you. By the sound of it you know a lot more about what has been going on behind the scenes than most of us. Not everyone has heard the "backstabbing" stories so it might be difficult for the to get on the same page and understand what you are really upset about. It sounds like you are upset about more than just the reselling. That's all.
Jordan ...you show wisdom way beyond your years. You are a blessing not only to Laz but to us as well. Debby and GregI may not be an active member on this site, but because my partner, Laz, is.. I do get quite a good view of everything that happens within this forum. I love pins as much as the next, but they are definitely not the priority in my life, nor a hobby that completes me. The drama that occurs on this site is something of quite immaturity. Let us not be naive to the realites in life. Pins are like any other materialistic object in life that is sold. People create and purchase things in the means to resell for profit. It is an unfortunate thing to happen, and I wish that pin trading (and buying pins) was left to those that care to collect them, or to give to another as a gift.
So, remember these are just pins, and they should not cause such trouble. If someone is willing to pay for them for an outrageous price, let them. If someone is willing to help another to get a pin, bless their generousity. If you do not get a pin, accept this outcome for the moment and hope that maybe in the future you will come across it again. Whether it is in trade or for a price you are willing to accept.
Communication over the internet is always misinterpreted and people are easily offended. So, everyone should always remember to take a step back, breathe, and try to understand what is being said if they feel offended.
So, Laz, I know you feel offended, but I think Karkura never intended to offend you. I hope you see she only meant she believes that if someone took the time to get something, they should have the right to do with it as they please. And, Karkura, I hope you realize Laz is more attached to the losses in this situation and only hope that things had turn out better.
I hope that everyone remembesr that these are just pins. They will come and go, and another pin will be designed and produced in its place. There will be plenty more to come in the future.
Pins are not the most important things in life. Do not rush to possess all that you desire, or you may miss out on what is really important. Relax and enjoy pin collecting as a hobby, not a business or competition.
I may not be an active member on this site, but because my partner, Laz, is.. I do get quite a good view of everything that happens within this forum. I love pins as much as the next, but they are definitely not the priority in my life, nor a hobby that completes me. The drama that occurs on this site is something of quite immaturity. Let us not be naive to the realites in life. Pins are like any other materialistic object in life that is sold. People create and purchase things in the means to resell for profit. It is an unfortunate thing to happen, and I wish that pin trading (and buying pins) was left to those that care to collect them, or to give to another as a gift.
So, remember these are just pins, and they should not cause such trouble. If someone is willing to pay for them for an outrageous price, let them. If someone is willing to help another to get a pin, bless their generousity. If you do not get a pin, accept this outcome for the moment and hope that maybe in the future you will come across it again. Whether it is in trade or for a price you are willing to accept.
Communication over the internet is always misinterpreted and people are easily offended. So, everyone should always remember to take a step back, breathe, and try to understand what is being said if they feel offended.
So, Laz, I know you feel offended, but I think Karkura never intended to offend you. I hope you see she only meant she believes that if someone took the time to get something, they should have the right to do with it as they please. And, Karkura, I hope you realize Laz is more attached to the losses in this situation and only hope that things had turn out better.
I hope that everyone remembers that these are just pins. They will come and go, and another pin will be designed and produced in its place. There will be plenty more to come in the future.
Pins are not the most important things in life. Do not rush to possess all that you desire, or you may miss out on what is really important. Relax and enjoy pin collecting as a hobby, not a business or competition.
Thank you for that. I definitely did not mean to offend anyone here. And I apologize Laz if you took my comments that way. It was not my intention. Let's just all be happy and kind and good things will come around to us if we are good to others. They always do.
Jordan ...you show wisdom way beyond your years. You are a blessing not only to Laz but to us as well. Debby and Greg
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