Am I wrong for thinking this???? I feel like a LEACH
GhostTrains
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Ok so I know the title was vague but now thay i have returned to pin trading and getting back into the forum life i have beed having issues with trades.
My wants list is so small I added pins i dont even really want just to try to get some trades, the problem is that i am the pleaser type personality who loves to get people what they desire. Its like a DRUG! ( a legal one) :eek2:
My problem is this: I have like 1000 pins and do not trade in park anymore, do not go to events or even to the parks anymore due to personal reasons so the only way i can trade is here. There are so many people looking for pins i have, but they just sit in the pin bag....and sit in the pin bag....6 years of it.
I want the pins to go to the people who will display them but noone really ever has my wants.
Here is my LEACH part:
I have posted before that I will trade any of my pins to anyone who wants them for any pin they have of equal trades/wants and value. I have dont a bit of this but now i am starting to feel like it is not worth it. I am trading my good pins away and having to pack and ship and pay for it to get just another pin that will sit in my book. Am I being selfish and greedy now? I also fee like some people have tried taking advantage of my asking for a bunch of my rarer pins they they dont even have on their wants and offering a similar LE but less desirable ones. I guess that is part of the whole trade up issue going on. then i feel like, hey i am trading and doing you a favor so i should get a little better pin since i am only trading to get you the pin.....:anxious:
Do I say "hey, I will trade with you but you have to pay for shipping and packing"?
i feel that would be rude but why should i have to spend $18 this month to trade for more traders?????
I just dont know what to do, I am trying to sell them for as cheap as i can since people just dont have the funds these days but being in NY i have had to buy literally 95% of my pins from sleezebay so i paid good amounts to get them and marked everyone with what i paid (crazy i know):naughty:. Then i feel bad offering them for sale at those prices.
Do i sell them cheaper so that people can get the pins they desire and take the loss??
I am so out of the loop with this
Hope you Kids have some words of wisdom for me, cuz my tires are spinnin in da mudd!
Happy trades
Kirk
My wants list is so small I added pins i dont even really want just to try to get some trades, the problem is that i am the pleaser type personality who loves to get people what they desire. Its like a DRUG! ( a legal one) :eek2:
My problem is this: I have like 1000 pins and do not trade in park anymore, do not go to events or even to the parks anymore due to personal reasons so the only way i can trade is here. There are so many people looking for pins i have, but they just sit in the pin bag....and sit in the pin bag....6 years of it.
I want the pins to go to the people who will display them but noone really ever has my wants.
Here is my LEACH part:
I have posted before that I will trade any of my pins to anyone who wants them for any pin they have of equal trades/wants and value. I have dont a bit of this but now i am starting to feel like it is not worth it. I am trading my good pins away and having to pack and ship and pay for it to get just another pin that will sit in my book. Am I being selfish and greedy now? I also fee like some people have tried taking advantage of my asking for a bunch of my rarer pins they they dont even have on their wants and offering a similar LE but less desirable ones. I guess that is part of the whole trade up issue going on. then i feel like, hey i am trading and doing you a favor so i should get a little better pin since i am only trading to get you the pin.....:anxious:
Do I say "hey, I will trade with you but you have to pay for shipping and packing"?
i feel that would be rude but why should i have to spend $18 this month to trade for more traders?????
I just dont know what to do, I am trying to sell them for as cheap as i can since people just dont have the funds these days but being in NY i have had to buy literally 95% of my pins from sleezebay so i paid good amounts to get them and marked everyone with what i paid (crazy i know):naughty:. Then i feel bad offering them for sale at those prices.
Do i sell them cheaper so that people can get the pins they desire and take the loss??
I am so out of the loop with this
Hope you Kids have some words of wisdom for me, cuz my tires are spinnin in da mudd!
Happy trades
Kirk