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An Ode to Sharks, or It Pays To Be Nice To Everyone You Meet

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An Ode to Sharks, or It Pays To Be Nice To Everyone You Meet

Geoff

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I have had a lot of people that have told me they have little rules about trading when they are in one of the parks. Some people never trade with kids. Some people won't trade with anyone that doesn't have a book. Some people won't let anyone under the age of 18 touch their pin books. I have known people to flat out stare a child in the face, or a person with a sparse lanyard and flat out ignore them when asked if they could look or trade. I have known people that have actually said when asked to trade "honey, you don't have anything that I could possibly want." I have had people tell me that they -refuse- to trade unless they know they are coming out ahead. Well, for all of those people, I have a little story for you.

I was at DLR all day this last Saturday. I had a pretty lame time trading. I gave up a WDI Mother's Day pin to a little girl who had nothing good in her adorable little book but she said her mommy would love it to death and I couldn't say no. I think I took a totally ugly Grand Californian Opening Day pin for it (its actually a little special to me cause it will always remind me of how happy the trade made her), most likely the worst pin in her book. I gave up waaaaay too much for a couple animation art pins. I traded a decent Soda Fountain for a DCA pin that I knew was worth maybe 5 bucks, just so someone could finish their set. There were other trades worse than that but those are the ones that I will admit to/can remember.

I was about 10 minutes away from packing up for the night when this young man (maybe 19? 20?) came up and asked if he could look at my pins. Even though I didn't see anything on him except for a tiny little pin book (smallest one they make with a zipper) I said sure, its always fun to look. I have a page of PODM in there for trade, and he stopped on the page and looked for a while. He looked at a WDI Goofy Sky School poster and said he liked that one too. I asked him which PODM he liked since I had seen him stop on it. He said he liked the one with Aladdin and Jasmine on the carpet the best, but he didn't think he had anything I would want. I told him, "hey, you never know. I never mind taking a look at others' pins." I opened his little book and began flipping through the pages.

There were maybe 20 pins in it, mostly hidden mickeys/rack stuff. Then, I saw a pin card on the last page that looked familiar. I looked at it and my heart -stopped-... I was honest and told him it was one of my top pins of all time, and would he even remotely consider trading it? I told him he could have any pin in my books for it. He asked if he could possibly have the Aladdin PODM, and I told him he could have it, gladly. I then asked him if he had the other pin and he said YES (you see, its a two pin set). He had it at home and would be back in the park Tuesday. I told him he could pick any other PODM for it, and anything else he wanted. I told him the poster pin was his, just for being so amazing and making my night.

Just because I was nice to someone that other people were ignoring, someone that usually would get overlooked, I got:
























pin91022


Oh yeah and on Tuesday night he is bringing me:
pin91023


Moral of the story - Be nice to EVERYONE you meet!!! You NEVER know what they have!!!
 
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Congrats on the new pins Geoff, and nice to know that there are still pin traders that consider everyone, and play fair like that :)
 
Yep! What goes around come right back at Cha!!!!!!!

The greatest pleasure is not from what you recieve, it's from how you feel when you give! :)

Vicki
 
What awesome pin karma that was. Good for you and the story should remind us all to remember - what goes around comes around.
 
That story made me happy! -especially the part about the little girl and the mother's day pin. :) Even better was that you were, in a sense, rewarded heavily for your kindness. Thanks for sharing!
 
That's great! Congratulations! I have gotten more cautious when trading with the lanyards, but when it comes to kids I often do what you do...let them have it and take a hidden mickey or something small from them. I had a little girl that was just adorable. She had no pins at all and was begging her parents to get a Belle pin from the store. I didn't have that pin, but I had a Belle pin on my lanyard...I bent down and asked if I could see her purse (she had one with a little dog in it) and I put the belle pin on it. She gave me the brightest smile and a little hug. Her parents were shocked that someone could be so nice. :)
 
Good for you , when you do something special, like you did for that little girl, it comes back to you ten fold . That was so sweet of you, that is what I'm talking about, you are a true pin collector/trader in it for the fun and not the value . Karma came back to you . Hugs ...
 
Fantastic story, I am so glad you shared and I saw the thread!!! Thank you so much and congrats!!! It truely does pay to be kind to ALL! :hug:
 
I love reading these types of posts. I definitely believe in "what goes around, comes around," even if it's rare that we see it or experience it so quickly! So glad you got grail pins.

I was also laughing at your comments about the "ugly" DCA opening day, because I'd probably like it (maybe I even have it). I like DLR/DCA sign/attraction pins, etc. You know how it goes, one persons trash is another person's treasure! Which (Pinpics) pin is it?
 
ok...so I know I am going to sound like an arse here...but 80 bucks or so in PODM pins for pins worth around 200$...why does everyone think this was such an awesome thing for Geoff to do...sounds like he ripped the kid to me...but thats just me.

"ducks, from all the flying pins everyone starts throwing"

Chumlee
 
ok...so I know I am going to sound like an arse here...but 80 bucks or so in PODM pins for pins worth around 200$...why does everyone think this was such an awesome thing for Geoff to do...sounds like he ripped the kid to me...but thats just me.

"ducks, from all the flying pins everyone starts throwing"



Chumlee

I totally agree!! Sharky move in my eyes sounds like the kid was perfect prey for a predator. Hope you make it right when you complete the trade for the other pin.
 
wow, I did not know those Brave pins were that hot! :eek:

yeah, probably should give him something amazing for them.

like a rafiki scene or hair scene or whatever.

dis the kid know what they were worth?
 
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