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I am livid!!

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I am livid!!

markheardjr

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You want a rand thread, here goes. I'm livid someone on this forum is refusing to send me 2 Mulan PODM's she agreed to get me for me getting her DSF Beloved Tales in return so she can fulfill Mulan PODM FOR PROFIT sales orders that she sold 20+ days AFTER I already got her the BT pins. I have already mailed the BT pins and paid for the Mulan PODM's. That is just rude, to totally go back on an agreement for more money when the first party already came through on their end of the deal. And no, sending me back the BT pins isn't fair. I already picked 2 scenes she sent me via PM to choose from and now nothing? All because I thought the scene selections were not very good and gave a piece of my mind about her holding back and only offering the worst scenes. I told her it's gonna be hard for me to pretrade again in the future if you only offer the worst scenes possible when I know you have more. Pure greed.
 
I agree, that is a terrible situation. When you make a commitment with someone the deal is set in stone. It would be one thing if they were not able to get the Mulan pins, but it sounds like they got enough to go around and wanted a bigger bang for their buck. Pins and favors are not loans or vouchers to hold a place while they shop around for the best offer. I hope the person makes things right and I don't blame you one bit for being mad.
 
Their only reason not to send them to me is they aren't happy I was disastified and said as much in a PM. The same person started a thread asking what scenes they thought would be the grail scenes or hardest to get before they offered pins to those of us they promise them to so they could save the best and most valuable. I specially asked for an easy enough scene to get, just one of mulan in either her face paint or a formal type dress. The person took family members and went to WDW for both days so I know they got a significant amount of pins eventhough she refuses to fess up how many she actually got. I just know the 5 I saw were the ones everyone on here said were least popular. That is fine if that's what you want to offer me. I made my 2 picks and expected those 2 pins. But I warned offering the least desirable only would turn off potential future trades. I dont' want to trade with someone that is going to hold out for more money when I am doing them a favor already.
 
alrighty, three sides to every story. His, Hers, Truth. What the truth is, is something we on this thread will never see most likely. so, lets just put it like this.

Rant threads are inappropriate. It has been stated over and over. you have issues, take it to the MODS. Not to 2 different areas of the forum boards. I am sorry you are having trouble with this person, I know who it is, and I have yet to EVER see her cause the kinds of trouble you are implying she has caused you.

Lets just take this back to a private discussion with the mods to mediate shall we?
 
I know who you are talking about . . . and I had kind of the same thing happen to me last month w the steam boat Willie pins. The only good thing was that I did not send her pin ahead of time. We pre-traded about a month before the release and she promised me first pick of the cells she got. But then after the release I emailed her and asked her to see the scenes and never got a response. Then I pmed her here and never got a response. Then - I saw she post about taking her cells to the Florida event and trading them. Then a couple weeks later she finally emails me back and asks if we were still on for our trade. Which by that time I had already traded with someone else for the one I needed - since I never expected to hear back from her. I never posted about it because I thought maybe this was a one time thing - but now your story and someone else story tells me this might be an ongoing problem.....
 
alrighty, three sides to every story. His, Hers, Truth. What the truth is, is something we on this thread will never see most likely. so, lets just put it like this.

Rant threads are inappropriate. It has been stated over and over. you have issues, take it to the MODS. Not to 2 different areas of the forum boards. I am sorry you are having trouble with this person, I know who it is, and I have yet to EVER see her cause the kinds of trouble you are implying she has caused you.

Lets just take this back to a private discussion with the mods to mediate shall we?

Psycho Pixie, you are always so rational! :) ^_^ :bigthumb: DPF stands for Disney Pin Forum, NOT Drama Pin Forum :lol:
 
alrighty, three sides to every story. His, Hers, Truth. What the truth is, is something we on this thread will never see most likely. so, lets just put it like this.

Rant threads are inappropriate. It has been stated over and over. you have issues, take it to the MODS. Not to 2 different areas of the forum boards. I am sorry you are having trouble with this person, I know who it is, and I have yet to EVER see her cause the kinds of trouble you are implying she has caused you.

Lets just take this back to a private discussion with the mods to mediate shall we?

Good job kristine .. +100,000,000,000,000,000,000,000,000 hahaha.
 
I'm so sorry that happened to you. You've always been so great getting the CA pins for us FL people, it sucks someone would do that to you. Please PM me and let me know who it was.

And not giving you what you paid for is stealing. It's not right to take your money, buy the pins, and then sell them for profit. It's like they took your money to bankroll a business venture.
 
Well, I know what is going to happen because he already started doing it, he is trying to find a way to defame me here as well as what he has threatened to do in chat (yes I took picture of it, and copied it to mods). So I am going to come out and say what happened. And no, I didnt steal your money, in fact if you want to get technical you owe me $5.

People are going to ask who is it, and you will send them a PM saying is me. So here is the other side of the story.

That is so not true Mark and you know it. You told me you were pissed at me for offering you crappy scenes, you are assuming that I got tons of pins and trying to sell them, yet I dont know where you are getting that from.

You told me you should have gotten premium picks of the scenes I picked up, which for you paying cost, $25 I don't think is fair of you to ask.

I told you almost all the scenes I picked up were very similar. I also told you I could not guarantee scenes. YOu threatened me and told me you were telling others at DSF to not trade with me. That in fact the word was already out.

You accused me of so many things that are unfounded, and untrue. You demanded that I told you how many scenes I got and which scenes I got, which I told you are non of your business.

I told you I didn't get many scenes, I even told you I wanst able to pick up enough for everyone who wanted from me.
I only offered 6-8 scenes in that post to others and not that many people responded, so I only picked up a few. You have now sent a couple of your "friends" to harrass me as well.

You did not trade the pins with me. YOu picked up BT pins for me at cost for which I paid you $65, and You paid me $60 for two podms. I told you specifically and I have the pms to prove it that I could not guarantee what scenes I got. I told you when you asked me to pick them up that I had two people set up with trades that I would let choose before you.

I didnt even have to offer you a choice of scenes. You told me you were upset and didnt like the "bottom of the barrel" "crappy" scenes I offered you. You demanded that I tell you what other scenes I got, and how many, and I told you that I shouldn't have to.

I offered you a refund, and you said you had done it because of getting me the last Beloved tale pins that came out and that they were really hard to get, because of standing in line so long and how difficult the dsf releases are compared to podms in WDW.

So I sent you your Beloved tales, just the way I got them. I also told you that since you hated the scenes so much, enough to go around and threaten me and talk lies about me to others, I would not require you to take the podms.
You would owe me $65 for the BT that I sent back from you and since you only paid me $60 you could do what ever you wanted with the $5 extra dollars you had of mine.

FYI, I only presold 3 podms, one of which was at cost!!!! $25 for a member here who could not afford it.

I am not selling podms for PROFIT! The reason I cancelled your order, is because you told me you were dissatisfied with the scenes, that you didn't like them that they were crappy, and that for Batb you demanded certain scenes, to which I told you, I could not do it.

You started defaming my name, came into chat and started talking trash to others and threatening me, (yes I sent those to the mods!) and have copies of all this stuff to prove others. I told you I wasn't able to get much variety as soon as I could, you paid freaking cost for the two podms and you sit there and harrass me, spaming my inbox with insults, and threats and then stalking me in the chat room.

No, I don't think is unfair that I got first pick for the scenes I got. I was the one who drove 6 hours round trip, stood in line twice for a total of 6-8 hours, and got sunburned, while I drug my daughter with her sprained ankle so we could get our scenes. I'm not offering up my daughter's podms because she bought those with money she made from baby sitting for her own collection. I told you that someone who was supposed to help me get scenes was unable to go.

I cancelled your order because you have been nothing but rude to me, demanding AFTER THE FACT that I show you my scenes and demanding that I tell you how many I got.

The truth and fact is that I NEVER EVER promised you any specific scene, and you bashed me, defamed my name, telling people not to trade with me because all I would send were crappy scenes.

So, no, I'm sorry. I'm giving those scenes to two people, at cost by the way on this forum who I told would pick up scenes for them if I could.

You cannot honestly expect that everyone will do like you said your friend does, that she lets you have first pick even before she picks her own scene.

Sorry, but I will not sell you something that you hate so much and have harrassed me so much. So, sorry, I am not selling you the Mulan scenes.

Maybe you can use the money from those scenes and buy some nicer ones from someone else.

Thanks and have a good day.
 
For some of us, the dpf drama is all we have in our lives. Well done everyone. Also, let's remember that it's always fun til someone quits dpf. No quitting please.
 
Crystal this is not the same thing. I remember telling you that the reason you didnt hear from me for a while was because right before MIckey's circus, my son had to have emergency surgery because the arteries on his throat started bleeding and he was chockig on blood. Many other people here on dpf know this to be true. I then left for Mickey's circus and when I got back I asked you if you wanted to still do the trade. We NEVER exchanged addresses or anything. We never confirmed anything about scenes. I still have scenes to trade for that release, and had you just asked me about it, I could have completed the trade, but I thought you were no longer interested. So now because your "friend" says something about me you want to come up with some excuse to jump on the wagon to flame me. Ok, that is fine.
You and I talked about doing a trade and we never completed it or finalized it. You could not have sent me any pins because I NEVER gave you my address.

I know who you are talking about . . . and I had kind of the same thing happen to me last month w the steam boat Willie pins. The only good thing was that I did not send her pin ahead of time. We pre-traded about a month before the release and she promised me first pick of the cells she got. But then after the release I emailed her and asked her to see the scenes and never got a response. Then I pmed her here and never got a response. Then - I saw she post about taking her cells to the Florida event and trading them. Then a couple weeks later she finally emails me back and asks if we were still on for our trade. Which by that time I had already traded with someone else for the one I needed - since I never expected to hear back from her. I never posted about it because I thought maybe this was a one time thing - but now your story and someone else story tells me this might be an ongoing problem.....
 
This is not the time or the place to take up pin disputes. I am aware of the situation as, I'm sure, is the rest of DPF. I will make the rest of the DPF staff aware of this situation when I get home from work. Any further discussion should be conducted in private, possibly through the moderators, I'm thinking.

Consequently, I'm closing this thread as nothing constructive can come from keeping it open. The admins can re-open this thread if they disagree.

I am aware of the messages that I have been sent and I will respond to them later tonight, when I get home; I am posting this on my iPad and it isn't great for correspondence.
 
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