pin pet peeve - am I the only one?
(OK, gonna slip on a flame-retardant suit here, just in case.....)
This has bugged me for a long time and I'm wondering if it's just me.....
I get fairly regular trade request e-mails outside of Pinpics, as well as counteroffers to Pinpics requests that I send or receive/respond/counteroffer to, in which people list Pinpics numbers only. It's not so big a deal if it's only one or two but usually it's a handful or two (or more, like ten or an even dozen!). I never do this. When I ask about pins I don't say, for example, "I'm interested in your 15949 for my 28260." I say "I'm interested in your Pin 15949: WDW Cast Lanyard Series - Beauty and the Beast Heart for my Pin 28260: Disney Auctions (P.I.N.S.) - Happy Valentines Day (Jessica and Roger Rabbit)." Or I use a link to the Pinpics listing.
When people send me numbers then I have to take the time to look them up myself - and then remember what they are or make a separate list - when it is absolutely just as easy to send a link or the full description as it is to send the number alone. This just strikes me as thoughtless and, yes, a little insulting. Sometimes I bite the bullet and just look them up, sometimes I request descriptions instead of numbers. Most of the time other traders are happy to send the descriptions (sometimes apologetically) and other times they are borderline (or not so borderline) rude and say something like "just forget it then." Recently I had someone say to me that if I was too busy to look up numbers then I was probably to busy to mail pins anyway. Really? I've been doing this for a long time. and I thought that was a bit unnecessary.
Anyway, do I need to just get over it? Or do others here find this as inconsiderate as I do?
Thanks. Sorry to ramble.
This has bugged me for a long time and I'm wondering if it's just me.....
I get fairly regular trade request e-mails outside of Pinpics, as well as counteroffers to Pinpics requests that I send or receive/respond/counteroffer to, in which people list Pinpics numbers only. It's not so big a deal if it's only one or two but usually it's a handful or two (or more, like ten or an even dozen!). I never do this. When I ask about pins I don't say, for example, "I'm interested in your 15949 for my 28260." I say "I'm interested in your Pin 15949: WDW Cast Lanyard Series - Beauty and the Beast Heart for my Pin 28260: Disney Auctions (P.I.N.S.) - Happy Valentines Day (Jessica and Roger Rabbit)." Or I use a link to the Pinpics listing.
When people send me numbers then I have to take the time to look them up myself - and then remember what they are or make a separate list - when it is absolutely just as easy to send a link or the full description as it is to send the number alone. This just strikes me as thoughtless and, yes, a little insulting. Sometimes I bite the bullet and just look them up, sometimes I request descriptions instead of numbers. Most of the time other traders are happy to send the descriptions (sometimes apologetically) and other times they are borderline (or not so borderline) rude and say something like "just forget it then." Recently I had someone say to me that if I was too busy to look up numbers then I was probably to busy to mail pins anyway. Really? I've been doing this for a long time. and I thought that was a bit unnecessary.
Anyway, do I need to just get over it? Or do others here find this as inconsiderate as I do?
Thanks. Sorry to ramble.