is it too soon to worry

On Pinpics I had a trade request mabey last month, I don't remember, it was a while back, he wanted my pin real bad but I couldn't find anything on his trades, he asked that I please hold my pin for him till we can come to an agreement. I said I would, so when the BT release was announced I asked if he was going, he said yes and we agreed on Bolt for my jumbo haunted mansion horse event pin (no not Jordans, he haa 1 too) then a few weeks after agreeing I got a trade request from him for my pin again, and offering a different pin, I told him I was confused, I thought we settled on a pin already, he apologised and and said yes we are trading still for the Bolt BT. Well the release has come and gone and I see he put it in his trades but has not messaged me or replied to my messages. I am becoming quickly disapointed and sad as I think I have been stood up, even after I held my pin for him for a long time. Am I worrying too soon? It was the only one would have kept out of the set, only because Jordan wanted it. What do I do just wait? Any advice

email him again and ask if he still wants to trade.

I think there's no need to worry because you haven't sent a pin out so you're not losing per say. Doc's protocol is very appropriate in this situation.

best of luck!

fluffystitch said:

I think there's no need to worry because you haven't sent a pin out so you're not losing per say. Doc's protocol is very appropriate in this situation.

best of luck!

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I know, but sfter everything that happened at this release I kind of think he's re-nigging on our trade, and it makes me sad because he was my last chance at one of th BT pins, I guess im just disapointed.

So this morning I received yet another pin trade request from this trader offering me 3 pins none what we agreed on, after I messaged him yesterday about our trade and him not responding then sending me another trade request is like a slap in the face, im a bit hurt, after all I gave him all my respect and honesty. I was not angry I just politley explained how I feel and if he will keep his word on our trade. This has never happened to me before, im kinda hurt.

he probably didn't get it with all the craziness this weekend. Or two only got one set and wants to keep it. But either way. He needs to speak up and tell you what is going on. that is what I find rude. If he didn't get it he can't help it. But just say so.

I am thinking of just putting nmy pin up yo auction here, I see it on a few grail siggys is this a pin that would interest any?? Happy haunts ball deadly delivery jumbo boxed pin ghost horse and hearse.

Sorry your trade didn't work out. I think you would get a lot of interest in an auction of that pin...I know I'd bid.

I had someone accept a trade for one of my BT's, Bolt also, and then he couldn't find his pin. I had 2 other accepts for the same pin and now I have to go plead with those people to reconsider after I declined their accept.

markheardjr said:

I had someone accept a trade for one of my BT's, Bolt also, and then he couldn't find his pin. I had 2 other accepts for the same pin and now I have to go plead with those people to reconsider after I declined their accept.

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I think if you tell people your trade fell through. They will understand.

Janice said RENIGGED...im peeing.

He e-mailed me this morning responding to my message, I did really well not getting angry and keeping it friendly and honest, he has now asked if it is new in the box which I told him from the start and has told me he is out of town, I just would like for him to be honest and just tell me he is not interested anymor and is backing outof our trade, I am feeling toyed with, I guess I'll ask him straight out to be honest with me and upfront. Thanks all for listening as this is my outlet, you all are my friends and great ears thank you.

I am sorry I am not the only one dealing with trade issues, I hope somehow we all get our tades worked out.