I'd appreciate the names in a PM too please. I still own well less than 100 pins so to lose just one would devastate me!
Particularly as I have low feedback at the moment as I've just started so I'd be more open to sending first to worried parties. Don't want to get screwed over!
EDIT: Just noticed there is a page 2 to the thread I missed when posting the above ^^
I might not have been into online pin trading for very long but I have been trading assorted My Little Pony products overseas, mainly the US and Canada, for 9-12 months now (can't remember exactly when I started!) so I have some experience with regard to international posting.
I must have sent at least 50 items in that time and I have only had bad news at the US end 2 times. Once was where Royal Mail damaged the envelope in transit so almost all the contents were lost. I put in a claim but got no where as the contents were not valuable (they were 5 for £2 pasta tins but obviously the weight made the postage HUGE). I split the cost of the replacement parcel with the reciever as I felt sorry for her despite it being no-ones fault.
The other incident was to do with lateness, the parcel took an incredibly long period of time to arrive, nearly 2 months! When it finally was recieved it turned out that this parcel must have been everywhere but where it was meant to, it had postal stamps on it from both Europe and Canada when it was meant for the US. So yes, sometimes parcels can go missing for a while but they normally turn up.
I think you were asking about tracking? Or a way for us in the UK to check on where the parcel is?
I know that the basic small packet service doesn't come with this, and its expensive as it is. You can however pay more to get either signed for or tracked delivery. But I was told that the parcel is only tracked until it leaves the UK, and not beyond! So it is only tracked until it leaves Royal Mail's hands!
I'm sure DHL track things but I have no idea about costs.
On another related note... Royal Mail! Where is all my dang post! The postie didn't come today ¬_¬ 2 days of no post du to Bank Holiday and they don't show up today ¬_¬ not like I'm waiting on pins and ponies!... rant over