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Bravery-Courage My Point of views of Disney Pins

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PrinceEric

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Dear fellow Royal Friends,

I don't think I'll ever be able to prove to you all how much I love you for accepting me for me. Are you brave enough to not care what people think of you? I know when I first started pin trading and came on here people were like who is this "Prince Eric" with his crazy comments about pins like "pins are sexy. " I remember people in person were thrown off by my comments and would refuse to trade with me and or laughed at my face because i said their pins were sexy. I remember thinking to myself "I may not be like you but at least I know who the f-c-k i am." So what I want to know when people talk about you, to your face or behind your back, feel bullied, or when they take advantage of how nice you are, Can you be brave enough to not care what people say and just be yourself? If they make you feel less than worthed remember I believe in you and being different is the best $HIT ever. Take just a second to reflect on all the things you have been through, dreams, and take this one moment to realize how valuable you are and Rejoice yourself!

Love Always, Prince Eric
 
Sometimes, just in general in my life, I let people walk all over me. I hate telling a person "no" and it kills me when I have to say it. Something I need to work on this year is not letting what people say get to me so much. I am who I am, and no one can change that. I hope people can appreciate me for who I am, and I found so many people on this forum that are so wonderful. :) So, sometimes saying no isn't all that bad, but you just have to find a way to control when you do say it or when you don't :)

Erika
 
For me, I tend to be more out spoken and say it how it is as I would not be an out and proud guy if I was to take every comment towards me seriously. I say stuff as I see it, and in my opinion if people dont like it they dont have to like it or agree, life is life, people are people. Like me or dont like me, talk about me to other people etc etc if I dont know there is no harm, if I do know I know to be careful to bring it up till I let it go and move on.

I was told ages ago I flaunt my pins in people faces and rub it in that I have this and I have that, and yet I never did, it was not my fault my partner bought me pins, and I was buying them to, I was just not trading for pins lol I know some people still dont like me but I will still be civil and help if I can as they hate me, but why should I hate them in return lol
 
You speak very wisely I can relate to this alot and my sister gives me the same advice. It's hard sometims because when I started pin trading I was in a dark place and those days where this hobby gets so ugly I can't help but cry but then I think I've met wonderful people like you. If I have to thank this hobby for anything is that I've met the most amazing people here.
So you're right don't let those rude comments get to you because sooner or later you'll have that one person who will say the sweetest things, like you prnce eric!!!
You truly are a Prince and so much more.
lots of love
milly<3
 
Really? How pathetic do people have to be to talk crap about others? No one is perfect you know and if somebody has nothing nice to say and go out of their way to bad mouth others it just means they're really sad and unhappy with their own lives. Seriously, happy people don't do that $.it, respectable people don't do that. Here's my philosophy they don't pay your bills, they don't hold any viable importance in your life so efff them and move on. Nothing is gained from drama or from letting some miserable people get to you. If you are happy with who you are and your life is awesome who the eff cares... Brush your shoulders off bro!
 
I quote my wise mother in a nursing home now,(when you talk about me,you are leaving someonelse alone)
i usually let it roll of my back unless its about a member in my family and then all heck will let lose
 
I learned a long time ago not to sweat the small $hit and worry about things I cannot control. People that cause drama or have negative energy have no place in my life and I have no problem ignoring them and moving on down the road. If you notice I will never comment in any thread that contains any sort of negativity as I will not allow the bad vibes in my neighborhood :)
 
Maybe you made them uncomfortable because they had some "special feelings" for you LOL! Otherwise I think the only people put off by sexy pins are maybe parents that think its inappropriate to even say sexy but I would have to say those parents probably are not open or accepting about anything but white bread, scheduled sexy time with the lights off half dressed and of course trying to shelter their kids from something they felt was not normal.

I think you are F-A-B-U-L-O-U-S and anyone that says different....well I would like to personally invite them to go and have relations with themselves. (hope that is not citation worthy I was really holding back the f words)

I am off to make out with a cupcake and go to sleep before I really start tripping balls. You do you Eric and anytime you need a cheerleader feel free to hit me up.

Smooches :wiggle:
 
My whole life has been very difficult. I've always been overweight and I looked like a boy since I lost my hair as a child. Then after puberty I learned a new skill: How to grow a beard. I've been made fun of by every cliche', sex and orientation. Even my own mother.

Deep down I was always a girl, and I struggled trying to be one. My body didn't want to be one even though it was, and mentally I was a woman. It took year of people "Asking me out" Just to laugh at me and say I was just kidding, or someone dared me to do it. I never dated. I have very few friends who actually loved me and in the end, they really didn't they just used me.

When I went to college I tried my hardest to be me. I stopped trying to please people, or get them to like me, I learned how to shave my face properly and I was able to find people who liked me for who I was and not what I looked like. No one questioned my sexuality, because we weren't THERE for that.

I found my boyfriend because he was a man who was raised by women and always taught to treat them right. He saw me and fell in love the first day we talked, he has always appreciated me for me.


And now my little sister is turning 16, and she truly is a boy in a girls body. I am so thankful for my pain, because it helps my family love and understand her better.


I don't care who you like, what you like or what you do, as long as you love people as much as they love you.



I'm so happy I found a community with as much love and respect (well...except in some drama threads :p) as this one!

and I love this thread D:<
 
Pins can definitely be sexy. Everyone who posted on this subject is sexy. Most of all, being a good person and being confident is really sexy!
 
Hey prince eric live on the Isle of Wight united kingdom and it can be a very horrible place sometimes but I've learnt to ignore it Like one day these chavs ie wearing sports clothing shout across the street and said are you gay my response was why do you want some that shut them up lol I've learnt if they have a problem with it let them deal with it as its there problem and not yours so don't ever listen to what they say lol
 
I think ur amazing! Iv seen u around...and think i even talked to u at ptn..and maybe didnt relize it..
Ur posts make me smile and ur always standing upfr people...

I dont understand why people are so mean...like they r so cool....
Like taylor swift says "all your ever gonna be is mean"
 
milly5513 said:
You speak very wisely I can relate to this alot and my sister gives me the same advice. It's hard sometims because when I started pin trading I was in a dark place and those days where this hobby gets so ugly I can't help but cry but then I think I've met wonderful people like you. If I have to thank this hobby for anything is that I've met the most amazing people here.
So you're right don't let those rude comments get to you because sooner or later you'll have that one person who will say the sweetest things, like you prnce eric!!!
You truly are a Prince and so much more.
lots of love
milly<3
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Milly your such a gem and im glad to be a royal friend of yours. xoxo
 
livin_free_asmy_hair said:
I think ur amazing! Iv seen u around...and think i even talked to u at ptn..and maybe didnt relize it..
Ur posts make me smile and ur always standing upfr people...

I dont understand why people are so mean...like they r so cool....
Like taylor swift says "all your ever gonna be is mean"
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next time you see me come and give me a royal hug. thanks for believing in me and glad your part of dpf community. xoxo
 
Romancing_Train said:
My whole life has been very difficult. I've always been overweight and I looked like a boy since I lost my hair as a child. Then after puberty I learned a new skill: How to grow a beard. I've been made fun of by every cliche', sex and orientation. Even my own mother.

Deep down I was always a girl, and I struggled trying to be one. My body didn't want to be one even though it was, and mentally I was a woman. It took year of people "Asking me out" Just to laugh at me and say I was just kidding, or someone dared me to do it. I never dated. I have very few friends who actually loved me and in the end, they really didn't they just used me.

When I went to college I tried my hardest to be me. I stopped trying to please people, or get them to like me, I learned how to shave my face properly and I was able to find people who liked me for who I was and not what I looked like. No one questioned my sexuality, because we weren't THERE for that.

I found my boyfriend because he was a man who was raised by women and always taught to treat them right. He saw me and fell in love the first day we talked, he has always appreciated me for me.


And now my little sister is turning 16, and she truly is a boy in a girls body. I am so thankful for my pain, because it helps my family love and understand her better.


I don't care who you like, what you like or what you do, as long as you love people as much as they love you.



I'm so happy I found a community with as much love and respect (well...except in some drama threads :p) as this one!

and I love this thread D:<
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thanks for being brave enough to share this story. I think this shows how we are all the same in this community we have a passion for pins but a great heart and love for people. xoxo
 
Molly said:
Maybe you made them uncomfortable because they had some "special feelings" for you LOL! Otherwise I think the only people put off by sexy pins are maybe parents that think its inappropriate to even say sexy but I would have to say those parents probably are not open or accepting about anything but white bread, scheduled sexy time with the lights off half dressed and of course trying to shelter their kids from something they felt was not normal.

I think you are F-A-B-U-L-O-U-S and anyone that says different....well I would like to personally invite them to go and have relations with themselves. (hope that is not citation worthy I was really holding back the f words)

I am off to make out with a cupcake and go to sleep before I really start tripping balls. You do you Eric and anytime you need a cheerleader feel free to hit me up.

Smooches :wiggle:
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Ohh Princess we might just have to meet in person. I am sending you royal hugs and kisses. Thanks for being supportive and for being so loving.

xoxo, Prince Eric
 
Combatdre said:
Really? How pathetic do people have to be to talk crap about others? No one is perfect you know and if somebody has nothing nice to say and go out of their way to bad mouth others it just means they're really sad and unhappy with their own lives. Seriously, happy people don't do that $.it, respectable people don't do that. Here's my philosophy they don't pay your bills, they don't hold any viable importance in your life so efff them and move on. Nothing is gained from drama or from letting some miserable people get to you. If you are happy with who you are and your life is awesome who the eff cares... Brush your shoulders off bro!
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bro you are right. I couldnt agree with you much more. thanks for the support.

xoxo Prince eric
 
This is yet another wonderful, thoughtful thread started by you. So big thanks and hugs for making us take a little time to remember and focus on the stuff that really matters, even though a lot of us may be in the midst of things that are comparatively small (like pin mania and the pros and cons of dsf releases :sigh: ).

This thread also made me think of my son. He is different and reacts to things differently, and for some that's really scary. So he got kicked out of his public school and put into a private, therapeutic school where he can work on himself with patient teachers and make friends with kids who are facing their own battles. But he still feels different every day and every day he sees that other kids from outside his school don't accept him. Even some of the parents in the neighborhood don't accept him. It's beyond sad to see a ten year old face this kind of rejection. He's too young to understand and to feel that sense of "different is good" right now, but we're hoping he'll get there at some point. It's really amazing to find someone who has faced similar rejection but who has gotten to the top of the mountain and can be comfortable with who they are. Certainly gives me hope that one day my son will be able get to that place :)
 
I went to school in NYC for theatre,so the "non hetro" communtiy became my friends circle early in life, and while str8t, I am by no means narrow. My basics are this, IF you dont like who i am,go away, I manged to live 40+ yrs without you, I can probably do another 40. If you take 5 min and get to know me, than you may find I am worth listening to. If not , have a great day, and move on.

Those who live in dark places, think only dark thoughts, and will most likely die alone, and forever be in the dark. <and remember Im an evil Villain type so we think dark is cool, but not permenantly!!!>

Fight on, be strong, and remember this..... the only thing not sexy is an ugly soul, and no amount of time at a salon can cure that!!!!
 
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