Wasn't this supposed to be a fun hobby to make new friends?
I will try to make a long story in as short a note as possible.
A few years ago, Greg and I were looking for a hobby to give us something to do together. Disney pin collecting "found us" while on a trip to WDW. Since then, it has been am amazing journey. We have met so many wonderful friends and acquaintances in this hobby. We like to think it is more about the friends that we have made than just the pins we have gotten, which may come and go, depending on our ever changing collection. Early on , a CM told us about the concept of trading not just with cast members while in the park, but talking to other guests to bring the "Small World" concept to life. Some of our most wonderful times in the park are sharing lanyards and pins with other people or introducing people to this hobby of pin collecting. It really is about the people. We have expanded that to our at home hobby too.
But, since pins are the common interest in people trading/collecting, it always comes back to the pins really. We have been fortunate to be in the right place at the right time for some pin releases and we have had friends get pins for many times for cost or equal trade. We are very appreciative to those people. Other times, we have been unable to get a pin(s) without paying or trading a lot for them, as we were not present in any way for the release. Worst case scenario is when we really want a pin or pins and can't get them at all. It happens. But, the bottom line is with any pin that we want, we have to decide what we are willing to give up for it. No one is ever twisting our arm to make us trade or buy. It is always our choice.
I hear from people and read on this Forum all the time about someone so very happy that they have gotten this pin or that pin (that may be a grail for many) in a very easy trade. Then the next post is about how they can't get a pin they really want and are angry. I am not trying to be mean in any way...but, it really does all work out.
If people are selling or trading their pins for more that you want to spend. Don't do it..But, alway remember that it is really not just about a pin. Both sides need to remember, behind every transaction, there is a person. Do we want to help one another or just make a profit? Do we want to help out and possibly build a friendship that will endure longer than a hobby or think of taking advantage of a "customer"?
I will climb off my soapbox now. I thank each and every one of my friends on this Forum. You know who you are. You are more valuable than any pin will ever be. <3 Debby